The Dark Side of Relationships

Domestic Violence and Dealing with the Past. Warning. This blog is about domestic violence. I was on Facebook tonight and someone I had reached out to during the day had messaged me back. Let me call her Bronwyn. Bronwyn accepted my request to connect, and I had responded thanking her and inviting her to like […]

Who Am I Really?

At the highest and simplest level I have got so far. “I am soul, here to have experiences.”.   I often ask people: Are you your body? Are you your emotions? Are you your mind or thoughts? Who are you? Let me start off with the body. I was watching the Biggest Loser the other night […]

How Important It Is To Be Heard In A Relationship?

One of the common themes I have found working with people and their relationships, is that often their partner doesn’t really hear them. Do you find for some reason your message may not be getting through at times? I also found this in my relationships as well. I will be honest and at times have […]

“In Relationships Compromise is a Dirty Word!”

What is your idea of a compromise? Is it something positive or negative? When we are searching for the love of our life, our goal may be to be with someone who “completes us”. Someone who matches perfectly with our personality and character and that we live with them in perfect harmony and solidarity. Like […]

“What Happens in Relationships When You Change?”

Do you know the biggest challenge and pitfalls in your relationships, when you change? Before we get to that, falling in love is one of the most joyous experiences in your life. But even when you find the right person, having a long-lasting love is not usually effortless. It also doesn’t have to be an […]

How Special Was Valentine’s Day For You?

How Special Was Valentine’s Day For You? Did your partner surprise you? In a good way? Like I wrote in my last blog, Do You Feel You Are Missing Out? Valentine’s day is important for some and not for others. Some relish this opportunity to express their love for their partner on this special day. Talking […]

Do You Feel You Are Missing Out?

There are those that embrace Valentine’s day.  And there are those either in a relationship or wanting to be in one, that feel they are missing out on something. Valentine’s day is fast approaching and we can see a whole lot of mixed sentiments on the internet these days… For some there is excitement, exhilaration […]

5 Tips to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

Are you in a “long long distance love affair”? (I was singing this line when I wrote this, lol) Kidding aside, Have you ever wondered if it is all worth it? Does your partner work away? Perhaps FIFO (fly in fly out) or working long periods in other countries? Long distance relationships can be a […]

7 Ways To Make A Woman Happy

A man has the power to make a woman happy.  A lot of the men just don’t realize this because sometimes they can’t fathom what their woman wants in order to stay happy in their relationship. Do you often find women so hard to please? Have you heard of the saying “Happy wife, happy life”? […]

Why Most Men Don’t Talk About Relationship Problems?

Lets face it, men are wired differently than woman. And I cover this a bit later on.Firstly, lets start with another view point. One way to look at relationships is, that relationships would be boring if men and women didn’t have any differences. This is what the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From […]